F*ck Perfect: Why “Flaws” Make You More Attractive Than You Think

Let’s get something straight - perfection is a scam. A soul-sucking, creativity-killing, joy-stealing scam. And worse? We’ve been buying into it for years.

Somewhere along the way, someone (probably a man in an expensive suit) decided women needed to be smoother, smaller, tighter, and eternally 25. And we said, sure, let me just waste half my life trying to keep up with that impossible standard.

Meanwhile, real beauty - the kind that stops people in their tracks -was never in the airbrushed skin or size 2 jeans. It was always in the untamed laugh, the sharp wit, the way a woman walks when she knows she’s got nothing to prove.

And let’s talk about those so-called "flaws" for a second.

Flaws? You Mean the Good Stuff?

You know what’s actually forgettable? Flawless. That’s why AI-generated models all look like unsettling, plastic mannequins- because perfection has no personality. No bite. No intrigue.

Real attraction? That’s the stuff that isn’t mass-produced. It’s the freckle no one else has. The silver streak in your hair that catches the light just right. The way your hips move when you’re not trying to shrink yourself.

Women come into my studio all the time, listing the things they hate about themselves like they’re reciting a grocery list. My arms are too big. My stomach isn’t flat enough. My thighs touch.

Babe, that’s the good stuff. The things that make you uniquely, unmistakably you. Do you think anyone has ever been mesmerized by a thigh gap? Please.

Confidence Is Built, Not Bought

Here’s the truth no one tells you: the only way to feel confident is to decide you’re allowed to. You don’t need permission. You don’t need a new diet or a magic serum. You just need to stop apologizing for existing in the body that got you through every damn day of your life.

Think about it—who told you that smooth skin, tight abs, or perfectly symmetrical features were the only way to be beautiful? Someone trying to sell you something, I guarantee it.

Let’s Make Some Damn Art

You want to see what I see? The version of you that doesn’t suck in, smooth out, or shrink down? The one who looks in the mirror and thinks, holy sht, I’m kind of amazing*?

Step in front of my camera. Let’s capture you now. Not when you “lose the weight” or “fix” whatever it is you think is wrong with you. Right now. As you are. Because trust me—you are so much more breathtaking than you’ve ever let yourself believe.

Let’s do this. I promise, you’ll never see yourself the same way again.

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