What to Wear for Your Boudoir Photoshoot: The Real Talk You Need

Alright, let’s just get this out of the way - figuring out what to wear for your boudoir session isn’t as complicated as it seems. I know, I know, the idea of stripping down to your skivvies in front of a camera can make you spiral into a black hole of “nothing in my closet is good enough” panic. But here’s the thing: you don’t need a runway wardrobe to look like a total goddess in your photos.

In fact, you probably already own what you need. Yep, the magic isn’t in the lace or the silk—it’s in the attitude. So, let’s break it down, shall we?

1. Wear What Makes You Feel Amazing

Lingerie is the obvious choice for boudoir, but let’s not pretend it’s the only one. Got a favorite oversized sweater that feels like a warm hug? Rock it. Love your husband’s button-up shirt? Bring it. Still holding onto those badass leather pants that make you feel like you own the world? Hell yes, we’re photographing those.

The point is this: if you feel amazing in it, you’ll look amazing in it. Don’t overthink it. Confidence beats couture every single time.

2. Don’t Buy Something You’ll Never Wear Again

Okay, let’s get practical. You don’t need to raid Victoria’s Secret like it’s going out of business. If you’re not the type to wear a corset and thigh-high stockings in real life, don’t feel like you have to for your shoot. There’s no rule that says boudoir has to mean lingerie.

Think about what fits your vibe. A silky robe? A simple tank top and panties? A slinky dress you haven’t had the excuse to wear yet? These can be just as stunning (if not more so) than a $300 lace bodysuit that’ll collect dust in your drawer.

3. It’s About Fit, Not Size

Let me say this loud enough for the people in the back: the size on the tag does not matter. I don’t care if it’s an XS or a 3X—what matters is how it fits and how you feel in it.

If it pinches, squeezes, or digs into your skin, toss it. Boudoir is about feeling free and fabulous, not about getting into a wrestling match with shapewear. (Spoiler alert: we can Photoshop tags out of photos. So, if you need to size up to feel comfortable, do it. No one’s looking but you, anyway.)

4. Accessories Are Your Secret Weapon

Accessories can take your look from “cute” to “damn, who is that?!” in seconds. A pair of killer heels, a chunky necklace, or even a floppy hat can bring a whole vibe to life.

Got a sentimental piece of jewelry? Bring it. Want to drape yourself in pearls or go full diva with a faux fur stole? Do it. Accessories let us play, and who doesn’t love a little extra drama in their life?

5. Nothing at All is Always an Option

Let’s get real: sometimes the most beautiful thing you can wear is nothing at all. (Okay, maybe keep the heels if you’re feeling spicy.)

Boudoir isn’t about covering up; it’s about embracing you—your skin, your curves, your whole self. If you’re comfortable, let’s strip it down and capture your raw, natural beauty.

6. Trust Me to Help You

Here’s the part where I get all bossy in the best way possible. You do not need to have this all figured out before your session. I’m here to guide you. Bring options, and we’ll go through them together. I’ll help you choose the pieces that work best for your body and the vibe you want.

And if you’re still freaking out? Borrow from my client closet. I’ve got plenty of pieces to choose from that photograph beautifully—and they’re all boudoir-tested and goddess-approved.

7. Stop Worrying About What You “Should” Wear

Seriously, “should” is a nasty little word that needs to be banned from your vocabulary. This is your session. There are no rules except the ones we make together.

You don’t need to be anyone other than yourself. If that means lacy lingerie, great. If that means your favorite pair of jeans and a crop top, also great. If that means nothing but a blanket and your favorite coffee mug, let’s go.

Let’s Make Magic Together

At the end of the day, what you wear is just the icing on the cake. The real magic? That’s in you. Boudoir photography is about capturing your confidence, your beauty, your story. It’s about seeing yourself in a way you never have before—and trust me, when you see those photos, you’re going to feel it.

So, take a deep breath, grab what makes you feel fabulous, and let’s create something unforgettable. Because you, my friend, are already a masterpiece.

Now, what are you waiting for? Go raid your closet and let’s make it happen. 💋

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