How to Build a Self-Care Bucket List That Actually Excites You
Alright, my fabulous goddesses, we are talking about you.
I bet you’ve been putting everyone else first for decades, and it’s high time you claimed a piece of that energy back for yourself.
I know what you’re thinking: “A bucket list? Really? Isn’t that for travel and thrill-seekers?” Well, yes—but who says self-care can’t feel like an adventure? The truth is, self-care isn’t just face masks and bubble baths (though, hey, I’m not knocking those). It’s about creating a list of things that light you up, make you feel alive, and remind you of who you are beneath all the titles: mom, boss, wife, friend.
Why You Need a Self-Care Bucket List
Let’s face it—time doesn’t slow down for anyone. If you don’t make space for yourself, the weeks and years can fly by in a blur of to-do lists and endless obligations. A self-care bucket list is your permission slip to prioritize YOU. It’s about finding what excites you, what challenges you, and what brings you joy—and doing it now, not “someday.”
Step 1: Dream Big already
Start by asking yourself:
What have you always wanted to do but put off because “life got in the way”?
What makes you feel alive, powerful, or downright giddy?
What would you regret not doing if you had the chance?
Maybe it’s learning salsa dancing, finally getting that edgy haircut, or booking a boudoir photoshoot that reminds you just how fierce you really are.
Write it ALL down. Don’t filter yourself or worry about being “too much.” This is your list—own it!
Step 2: Mix the Big and Small
Sure, skydiving might make the cut, but don’t forget the little things that add joy to your daily life. Think about:
Treating yourself to a solo coffee date at that cute café.
Buying flowers just because.
Turning your phone off for an entire day.
The key is balance—big, bold experiences and tiny, nourishing moments that fill your cup every single day.
Step 3: Add a Sprinkle of Self-Love Challenges
This is where it gets juicy. What if you added a few items that push you just outside your comfort zone?
Wear that bold red lipstick you’ve been “saving for special occasions.”
Say “no” to something that drains your energy.
Look in the mirror every morning and say, “Damn, I’m gorgeous!”
Self-love is like a muscle—you’ve got to work it, stretch it, and give it room to grow.
Step 4: Put It Into Action
The difference between a dream and a goal? A plan. Start by picking one thing from your list that excites you the most and schedule it. Put it on your calendar, tell a friend, or book that appointment.
No more “I’ll do it someday.” Someday is today.
My Personal Favorite: The Power of Being Seen
You knew this was coming, didn’t you? Ladies, nothing hits quite like seeing yourself through a lens that celebrates your beauty, strength, and confidence. A boudoir photoshoot isn’t just about the pictures (though they’re amazing). It’s about the transformation—the way you carry yourself differently after seeing what the world already sees in you.
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Building a self-care bucket list is about more than ticking boxes. It’s about falling in love with life—and yourself—all over again. So, grab a notebook, pour a glass of wine, and start dreaming big. And when you’re ready to cross “feeling like a queen” off your list, you know where to find me.
Because here’s the truth: You’re not running out of time, my love. You’re just getting started.
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